Buscaglia on Loving Each Other
Buscaglia is a great speaker about love.He says that"a loving relationship is like an ideal 'home' within it you can totally be yourself, be accepted, understood,trusted and respected as a valuable being.It is a nurturing environment where effort is made to provide enough caring and security so that one can share hopes and fears and where one is encouraged to learn and grow."
He goes on in his book"Loving Each Other" to say thatgood,clear communication is the key to create and maintain loving realtionships, but that it is very difficult for people to have good communication because they find it embarrassing and threatening to communicate our love, one to another.
It talks about greeting those whom we love with a warm touch and a kind word.
He talks about how sometimes as people we have difficulty in forgiving those people who have wronged us personally becasue we still harbor guilt about our own failings that we got from our parents...Sheesh!
please leave me a comment about what you think about Buscaglia's work... and...what do you think has helped you maintain a loving life/perspective?
For me, it has been belief in love of my parents and belief in a higher light and order in the universe.That,a four leaf clover and friends...